Everything happens for a reason

有些人喜欢在新的一年看运程. 我一向不信这些, 乐观的时候有时会认为人定胜天, 命运掌握在手中. 悲观的时候有时会认为冥冥中早有安排, 没有必要去想这么多. 如果算命 / 运程真的那么准的话, 未来就可能什么都不能预测.

但近年来我越来越相信everything happens for a reason.

某个人突然出现在你的生命,或不辛的事情突然间发生,或拾而复得的东西等等,一切往往都在你最没有准备的那一刻发生.

所以我开始学会安慰自己, 事出必有原因, 一些事情的发生, 也许就是为了为即将发生的另一些事情铺路.我会告诉自己,如果不是”这样的话”,也许就拿不出勇气”那样”, 就会一直将自己紧紧锁在comfort zone里,人就会渐渐自满, 或不觉得有必要去尝试.

我不是一个很迷信的人,但在需真的要忠告和安抚的时候,我会把上帝挂在嘴边,希望他可以赠一两句简讯. 不管信不信, 如果有缘人能凭三两句话就将我振作起来,说这是迷信也无妨.

When i look back at 2010, what strikes me most is just how brave i was. I have done something that was based on a leap of faith & it's been so far so good.

So, if there was one lesson i learnt in 2010, it was that it is okay to take a chance and change the course of your life. Even if things don't turn out exactly to be the way you expect / think it would or should, what do you really have to lose?

At least you have tried and also at least you have experienced something different & made your life more interesting. As i always say, life is really short.

在新的一年里,应该以怎么的心情和心态面对新的挑战,应该是向左走还是向右走,应该回头望还是往前看,应该不顾一切还是应该有所顾虑.该不该,最终做决定还是自己 !!!